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exploring the
Why?
making a case for the benefits of in person connectivity
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Why do we need community?
In an increasingly technologically connected world, what does it mean to actually feel connected? We are surrounded by a myriad of ways to communicate, but communication is not always connection.
Maison Nefelibata is the embodiment of an evolution that was grounded in connection, uplifting, and creating spaces that allow people to feel encouraged to live their best life. Today, Maison Nefelibata is exploring the role of community, conversation, shared experiences, and physical environments in creating a more human life.
Together let's explore what happens when we intentionally create the time, space and conditions for people to be together without the distractions of technology. We are exploring a simple question: How do the spaces and experiences around us shape the way we connect, create, and feel in the modern age of technology?
Research across psychology, sociology, public health, and environmental design continues to explore the relationship between social connection, belonging wellbeing, and the spaces we inhibit.
We are interested in that relationship and in what we can learn by gathering in real life.
How does intentionally slowing down impacts us?
Modern science agrees with what our bodies already know — that slowing down heals. Every gathering is meant calms the nervous system, nurtures creativity, and reconnects us to ourselves. Shared below are some of the benefits for handwriting and making art, simple things that we may have strayed away from in adulthood.
Stanford University research shows that chronic multitasking decreases attention span and increases stress hormones(Cortisol, Adrenaline). Activities that require single-task focus — like handwriting or creating art — activate the parasympathetic nervous system (our body’s “rest and digest” mode), lowering heart rate and improving emotional regulation.
University of Tokyo (2021) found that handwriting or handling physical materials improved memory and creative processing compared to typing. Receiving physical mail stimulates anticipation and dopamine in a healthy way — it’s slow dopamine, not the instant gratification of screens.
Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman notes that rituals cue the body’s internal clock and stabilize mood through dopaminergic predictability loops. When rituals involve physicality, they reinforce mind-body coherence — grounding the nervous system in present sensations.
Journal of Experimental Psychology found that expressive writing reduced anxiety and boosted immune function over time. When you handwrite (vs. type), you engage more neural pathways, helping regulate emotional states and strengthen self-awareness.
Harvard’s 80-year Study of Adult Development shows that genuine relationships and emotional connection are the strongest predictors of long-term well-being. Sending or receiving handwritten letters is a form of emotional attunement— it conveys care, time, and intimacy that digital messages often lack.
Our gatherings are just the beginnings of this exploration .
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